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jsamantha
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Forgiveness does not necessarily mean reconciliation with the person that hurt you or condoning of their actions. But it is a process of concluding resentment indignation or anger as a result of a perceived offense, difference or mistake or ceasing to demand punishment or restitution or apology. What really matters is to find peace and understanding in each one of us, thus in time it will heal the world. That is the importance of forgiveness in our everyday lives, let us forgive each other, then doing so can heal individuals, marriages, families, communities, and even the entire nations.

This is a quite a difficult subject matter to talk about personally, so as it is hard to forgive someone who you feel has wronged or hurt you. Not all of us, but most of us have experiences this kind of pain from a relationship, a betrayal and disrespect with a friend or family member or some one with whom you work. The memories of the pain every time you meet sit deep in your soul and eating you away. You don’t want to forgive because it feels like forgetting the wrong and you feel the other person’s behavior doesn’t deserve to be condoned. You could feel his/her laughter at the back of your mind, ‘laughing at you’. You are angry and you blamed this person, but in the end, you have come to realize that the way you are handling your hurt and anger was really preventing you from truly enjoying life and moving forward.
To be honest with yourself, you would never know that there might be other issues going on in the other person’s life and it was not all about the problem in your friendship, your family or your work. Outside factors were affecting both your behavior. You have the right to feel hurt, nobody say to you to ignore the pain, what I say is that dwelling on the hurt is taking away from you, your quality of life and its damaging your health.
Forgiveness even how hard to forgive and forget is life changing. True enough, all things are possible even changing attitudes. Until now I am still a working in progress on incorporating the concept into my life. Forgiving to make a better life and not so much to absolve the other person of what you perceived to be their wrongdoing. Letting true forgiveness to heal the world.

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Posted Jan 7, 2012, 11:21 pm

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Posted Jan 17, 2012, 1:35 pm

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Not all of us, but most of us have experiences this kind of pain from a relationship, a betrayal and disrespect with a friend or family member or some one with whom you work.

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Posted Jan 17, 2012, 10:28 pm	Last edited Jan 17, 2012, 10:28 pm by Shaina32Odom